This is our mind’s first response to the death of our pet. It’s difficult to even comprehend the absolute reality and we become overwhelmed with numbness. With the initial shock, we tend become defensive in order to protect ourselves. Then disbelief sets in, we are consciously unwilling to accept the truth. This however changes with time and after a few hours, or days, we acknowledge the death. This is all normal. CLICK (+) TO READ MORE…

Anger is a temporary response to the overwhelming outrage and frustration of having lost your pet. We may want to lash out at or alienate people around us if they disappoint us in their support; “It was just a pet”! Sometimes, distancing yourself may be the best way to handle this temporary anger. CLICK (+) TO READ MORE…

One of the most normal and commonly experienced responses is guilt. In order to move forward, we must resolve it. Somehow we feel that we failed our obligation and our perception of being able to prevent the death of our pet. This self-degradation is normal during the early stages of bereavement. It is not based on logic or reason and is usually unmerited guilt. CLICK (+) TO READ MORE…

Depression may be experienced throughout the entire mourning process and it’s natural. We feel numb, indifferent and life appears heartbreaking. There may be loss of appetite, anxiety, disturbed sleep patterns and obsessive thoughts. There is a pending gloom hanging over our heads and we withdraw. It’s even difficult to carry out day-to-day activities and life may appear to not be worth living. CLICK (+) TO READ MORE…

Now is the time for spiritual and emotional healing. Pain stops being an immobilizing force and instead it becomes a precious memory. It doesn’t mean that our intense love is diminished for our pet. Instead we are discovering a new dimension, making us a better and wiser person. We no longer consider ourselves victims, rather celebrants of the irreplaceable bond we once shared. This realization will elevate us by honoring our pet in this new way. CLICK (+) TO READ MORE…